Ever had one of those conversations, either with other people
or with yourself, that goes something like this: One day I
will do what I want to do ...(write a book, travel the world,
run my own business ... you fill in the blanks) or If only I

Whenever I hear myself say things like that, I ask myself
the following 3 questions:

1. What if I could do (whatever I'm putting off) now?

I'm sure you like me have said or heard 'I can't' many times
in your life. What happens when you say it? For me, it means
finality, a full stop, the end. 'I can't' and that's it, and
there's no point in even trying.

When I was researching what to write for my new website, I
came across examples of how people present themselves
differently to how we might think.

For example, Tesco's doesn't call itself a supplier but
rather 'a buyer on behalf of our customers.'  That small
difference in words is a major difference in perspective -
it changes from pushing people to accept what you offer to
pulling people towards you because you have what they want.