I'm 34 years old and the youngest of 7 kids.   My oldest sister (2nd oldest sibling) is 46 and just got diagnosed with stage 1 breast cancer.    Her life personally and professionally is a total mess.   She's got a JD (from the only law school that accepted her) and an MBA (from one of those online universities) and only works temp jobs occasionally.   She met and married her now ex-husband within a month...met and married within a month.   He currently lives on a Navy base in Japan with their 2 high school aged sons.   T